Everyone I know craves community so badly, the minute it seems to exist it is savored to death, framed into a vignette and preserved for memory.
Nobody seems able to make these little scenes endure or even repeat.
We blame our wills.
Is it our wills?
My opinion: Until we clarify our understanding of individuality and community and come to general agreement on ends, our debates around means will be fruitless and we will only dream of community.